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So, You Want to Be a Plus Size Diva?

Are you a plus size woman who wants to be a diva? If you are, then you’ve come to the right place! In this blog post, we’ll discuss what it takes to be a plus size diva. We’ll also dispel some of the myths about being a diva. So, if you’re ready to learn more, keep reading!

I’m Michaela Leitz, a plus size luxury fashion stylist, size-inclusive fashion expert, and plus size luxury influencer. I love nothing more in life than embracing and channeling my inner diva.

What Does It Mean To Be a Plus Size Diva?

Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz
Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz


A lot of people seem to think that being a diva is all about being arrogant and demanding. But that’s not true at all! A diva is simply a woman who knows her worth and isn’t afraid to demand the best. A diva is confident, sexy, and fabulous! And yes, being a diva does require some work. But it’s so worth it when you can walk into a room and command attention. Trust me, I know from experience!

I consider myself as being a Plus Size Diva.


Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz
Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz


I truly just want to enjoy my life and live it on my terms, people often label me as a diva when they are in my natural habitat and I do not mind at all – au contraire I love being a plus size diva. ⁠

And diva is the Latin word for “goddess” and who wouldn’t like to be called that?

And when I talk about being a diva, I mean the high-performing, self-loving, self-respecting kick-ass woman that I am – I do love the finer things and life and I seriously just love to pamper myself.⁠

As a plus size woman, it’s important to me to live a divalike life. That means being confident and unapologetically myself. It means demanding the best and always putting my needs first. It means being fierce and fabulous, and never letting anyone tell me that I can’t be or do anything.

It’s not always easy to live this kind of life, but it’s worth it. When you’re living your best life, nothing can bring you down! So if you’re ready to start living like a diva, then keep reading!

To live a divalike life, you need to start by loving yourself.

You need to be confident in who you are and what you stand for. Need to know your worth, and never be afraid to demand respect.  And you need to have a sense of humor about yourself and be able to laugh at yourself when things go wrong.

Also you need to make sure that you have your priorities in order. You can’t be a successful diva if you’re not taking care of yourself first and foremost.

Finally, remember that being a diva is all about having fun. So go out there and enjoy life! Dance like no one’s watching, wear whatever makes you feel sexy, and strut your stuff with confidence. The world is your oyster, so go out there and conquer it!

So, if you’re ready to become a plus size diva, here are three things you need to do:

1. Embrace Your Curves: The first step to becoming a plus size diva is embracing your curves. You have to love your body just the way it is. Accepting your body is key to having the confidence you need to be a diva. And remember, there is no such thing as being “too curvy.” Embrace your curves and flaunt them with pride!

I know it sounds easier than it seems, but it’s so important to start loving the beautiful rolls on your body.

2. Dress for Success: Another important step in becoming a plus size diva is dressing for success. Of course you do not need to spend a fortune on high end clothes. But it does mean that you should take the time to find clothes that fit well and make you feel fabulous. When you look good, you’ll feel good—and that confidence will show.

3. Be fearless: The final step in becoming a plus size diva is being fearless. You have to be willing to take risks and put yourself out there. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind or go after what you want in life. A true diva isn’t afraid of anything!

A signature wardrobe is key for a plus size diva

One of the most important things for a plus size diva is having a signature wardrobe. This means having a few key pieces that you can always rely on to make you look and feel fabulous. Clean and sexy shoes, a little black dress, and a stunning coat are all essential items for any plus size diva’s wardrobe.

But don’t forget that quality counts! It’s important to invest in good quality clothes that will last. That way, you’ll be able to wear them time and time again, and always feel like your best self. Luxurious fabrics and high-quality construction are key when it comes to dressing like a diva. You won’t be able to feel like a true diva while sweating in a full-on fast-fashion polyester dress.

A true plus size diva does not practice renunciation

Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz
Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz


I do not sacrifice what I want in life.

If you want to be a successful diva, you need to learn how to indulge. This doesn’t mean eating unhealthy foods or living an unbalanced lifestyle. It simply means allowing yourself to enjoy the good things in life. So go ahead and treat yourself to a delicious meal, buy that new dress you’ve been wanting, or take a weekend getaway with your best friends.

Remember, a diva is all about balance. You can still be healthy and fit while enjoying life’s little luxuries. So go ahead and indulge! You deserve it.

I love to pamper myself with aphrodite baths

After I prepare the bath with the scent “Parisienne by YSL” and luxurious bath salts, I light some candles and incense. I take a few deep breaths to relax and clear my mind. Then, I slip into the bathtub and soak for a while. I allow the warm water to soothe my skin and the aromatherapy to calm my mind. I sip on my champagne and listen to soft feminine music, letting all my worries fade away.

This practice of self-care is key to being a plus size diva. Taking time for yourself is crucial to maintaining your inner glow and feeling beautiful inside and out. So don’t forget to spoil yourself with an aphrodite bath once in a while!

A plus size diva doesn’t need a partner for wearing lingerie

There’s no denying that lingerie is sexy. And there’s no reason why a plus size diva can’t enjoy the benefits of looking and feeling sexy. Wearing lingerie is a great way to feel confident and beautiful, no matter what your size.

Plus size lingerie can be just as sexy and flattering as any other kind of lingerie. It often has the bonus of being more comfortable and flattering. So don’t be afraid to rock some sexy lingerie! It’ll make you feel fabulous.

Sexy lingerie can help you feel confident and beautiful, while silk night negligees are perfect for lounging around the house. So go ahead and indulge in some sexy lingerie and silk nightwear—you deserve it!

As a plus size diva, I love to watch old Hollywood movies


Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz
Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz


Old Hollywood movies are a great way to channel and feel into being a plus size diva. These movies often celebrate femininity and glamour, which are key elements of being a diva. They also portray women in a positive light, which is something that all plus size women can appreciate.

Watching these movies is a great way to feel inspired and empowered. It’s a reminder that you can be beautiful and glamorous no matter what your size. So go ahead and watch some old Hollywood movies, and let them help you unleash your inner diva!

Some recommendations for old glamour diva Hollywood movies include “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes,” “Some Like It Hot,” and “The Women.” These movies are all a great way to celebrate femininity and glamour, while also enjoying a good laugh. So go ahead and watch them all! You won’t be disappointed.

Soft femininity with the right music

Plus size divas need to embody all that is soft and feminine. And what better way to do that than by listening to music that celebrates those qualities? There are many great diva singers out there who can help you feel beautiful and confident.

Some of my favorite diva singers include Adele, Whitney Houston, Beyonce, and Shirley Bassey. These singers all have powerful voices that can fill a room. But they also have a certain level of emotional vulnerability that comes through in their music. This makes them relatable and endearing to listeners.

So go ahead and give some of these great diva singers a listen. Their music will help you feel beautiful and confident, while also providing an escape from the everyday world. You’ll be amazed at how much their music can empower you!

Being a diva is misrepresented by the media

The bias against divas is evident in the way they are misrepresented by the media. Divas are often portrayed as being unhinged and over-the-top, when in reality they are just powerful women who know their worth.

The media often tries to shame divas for their power and confidence, while also trying to tear them down. This is an unfair representation of what it means to be a diva. Divas are strong women who refuse to be silenced, and that is something to be celebrated.

So why are divas misrepresented by the media? One possible reason is because the media is afraid of powerful women. Divas represent everything that the media tries to silence, so it’s easier to just portray them in a negative light.

But as plus size divas, we should refuse to be silenced. We should celebrate our power and confidence, and refuse to be ashamed of who we are. We are all beautiful, powerful women, and we should never forget that.

Live a softer lifestyle and break out of the hustle culture

Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz
Plus Size Luxury Fashion Stylist & Plus Size Diva Michaela Leitz

There’s no denying that the hustle culture is alive and well. And for many people, it’s the only way to get ahead in life. But as a plus size diva, you should break out of that culture and live a softer lifestyle.

A softer lifestyle can be just as productive and successful as a hustle lifestyle. It simply means taking things slower and enjoying life more. This can be done by taking time for yourself, relaxing with friends and family, and enjoying simple pleasures.

Breaking out of the hustle culture can be difficult, but it’s worth it. So go ahead and embrace your inner diva by living a softer lifestyle!

Channel your inner Plus Size Diva

If you’re ready to become a plus size diva, then follow the three steps outlined above. Embrace your curves, dress for success, and be fearless! And soon enough, you’ll be strutting your stuff like the Diva that you are!



If you still need some help, I am here for you! Easily follow me on Instagram @aboutmichaela or if you’re ready to work on your signature style I’m happy to chat with you via zoom.

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